Often we can become so used to the way things are that we forget that there are better ways. We can find ourselves in jobs that we don’t like, relationships that aren’t working, situations that are just wrong…
By allowing the status quo, we are essentially telling the Universe / God / Your unconscious mind / Whatever you believe in, that you are okay with it and to send more your way. You may have even noticed that if someone mistreats you in some way and you brush it off, before long, others are mistreating you in the same manner.
No one likes to be blamed for being mistreated and in fact it goes against our politically correct “everyone wins” attitudes in society. However, the simple truth is, what you allow into your life, will continue and repeat until you put up clear boundaries.
If someone wrongs you, make it be known in very clear terms that it’s not okay and will not be tolerated; If you are in a relationship that is not working no matter what you do to fix it, it’s time to get out of it; and if you are in a job that you can’t stand, find another way to make a living that feeds your soul as well as your wallet.
We live in an abundant world even if we can’t always see it. There will always be another relationship, another job, another way, etc. It’s up to you whether you will allow it to be a good one or another version of what you already have.
What are you allowing in your life that is time to say no more?