The way things are, is the way they should be
!["There's a pervasive myth that the way things are, is the way they should be. The Empowered person flows like the wind, embracing obstacles and change to enhance their own power and sculpt their reality."](https://i0.wp.com/empoweringmeditations.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/93_The_way_things_are_james_cole_meme_2021.jpg?fit=800%2C800&ssl=1)
There’s a pervasive myth that the way things are, is the way they should be. The Empowered person flows like the wind, embracing obstacles and change to enhance their own power and sculpt their reality.
Nothing matters
![Nothing matters except that which matters to you.](https://i0.wp.com/empoweringmeditations.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/79_Nothing_matters_james_cole_meme_2021.jpg?fit=800%2C800&ssl=1)
Nothing matters except that which matters to you.
Everything is important until they realise it’s not
![The Empowered person appreciates that everything is important until they realise it’s not.](https://i0.wp.com/empoweringmeditations.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/66_Everything_is_important_james_cole_meme_2021.jpg?fit=800%2C800&ssl=1)
The Empowered person appreciates that everything is important until they realise it’s not.
I spent my whole life building strength and fighting against everything
![I spent my whole life building strength and fighting against everything, only to realise that real strength comes from letting go and not reacting in the first place.](https://i0.wp.com/empoweringmeditations.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/62_I_spent_my_whole_life_james_cole_meme_2021.jpg?fit=800%2C800&ssl=1)
I spent my whole life building strength and fighting against everything, only to realise that real strength comes from letting go and not reacting in the first place.
Never afraid of ending a relationship
![The Empowered person is never afraid of ending a relationship. When a relationship no longer works, they know that by holding on, they dig in, making the scars deeper. By separating, they give space for the relationship to either heal and evolve or create space for something new.](https://i0.wp.com/empoweringmeditations.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/61_Ending_a_relationship_james_cole_meme_2021.jpg?fit=800%2C800&ssl=1)
The Empowered person is never afraid of ending a relationship. When a relationship no longer works, they know that by holding on, they dig in, making the scars deeper. By separating, they give space for the relationship to either heal and evolve or create space for something new.
The greatest power is in letting go
![The greatest power is in letting go.](https://i0.wp.com/empoweringmeditations.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/38_The_greatest_power_is_in_letting_go_james_cole_meme_2021.jpg?fit=800%2C800&ssl=1)
The greatest power is in letting go.
In letting go of the emotion
![The Empowered person knows that in letting go of the emotion, all that remains is the lesson.](https://i0.wp.com/empoweringmeditations.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/33_Letting_go_of_emotion_james_cole_meme_2021.jpg?fit=800%2C800&ssl=1)
The Empowered Master knows that in letting go of the emotion, all that remains is the lesson.